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Pedophilia explained to children

© 9 June 2018 Marthijn Uittenbogaard

What is it?

When a man (or a woman) wants to do sex with you. Be naked together. When he caresses you. Kisses you. Licks you. Or even fucks you. That he loves you.

I'm not allowed to say... fuck.

You can say anything you want. Just be nice to each other. Fuck means that the man puts his stiff penis in your ass if you are a boy. And if you are a girl then he puts his penis in your ass ór vagina.

Can he do that into me?

Only if you both want to and if he does not hurt you.

What do I have to do?

You can kiss him back. Lick him where he likes being licked. Just do things you both want. That you feel good doing it. Feel love.

Do we have to do sex all the time?

No, you can watch a movie together too. Or play football outside. Or tennis. Or play video games. Or learn how to cook. That the man cooks a meal and you help him. He explains you how and he is with you all the time.

Is the man the boss?

No. You both are the boss. You do only things together if you both want to. If you don't like him you just find other friends. But if you like him very much and he likes you very much you can be together. And play together. And even sleep in the same bed together. And you can ask him if you may live in his house too.

But I live with my mom and dad.

You choose where to live. You can of course still meet your parents often if you like seeing each other.

And if I like a woman?

You just choose nice people to live with. Man or woman, boy or girl. Or a whole group of people. If you all like each other, just be with each other.

So pedophilia means I am the boss?

You are the boss of your own body, of your own life. You are not the boss of other people. And they are not your boss. You both decide what to do.

My parents are the boss...

That needs to change. They are the boss when you are a baby. But when you get older they should not be the boss anymore.

Do pedophiles only like children?

A lot of pedophiles also like grown up people.

Do all children do sex with men?

No. It is not allowed. That needs to change. And when it is allowed, you only do things you want with people you like. Some children like to please a nice man very much. And they enjoy the love he gives them. Other children only want to be caressed and do nothing back. Other children don't like to do the sex things. Everyone is different. Just find people you like.

And if no one wants me?

I love you. There are always people that love you. Always.

So I can now go out and make friends? Grown up friends too?

No. Right now your parents and the police are the boss. The police will place the man in prison if you both love each other and do some sex things. You can not see him anymore. That is sad. Pedophiles want to change this. So that you can decide, and not your parents and the police.

I think pedophiles are nice.

They are. There are some people that are not nice. But most pedophiles are nice. Just choose a nice friend. Or a couple of friends. People that love you very very much.

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"Wees eerlijk en laat zien wie je bent."
"Kinderen moeten veel meer zeggenschap krijgen."
"Alle zedenwetten moeten weg."
"Pedohaat heeft niets met seks te maken."
"We gaan verkeerd met seksualiteit om."
"Hoe zinniger wat je zegt, hoe bozer men wordt."
"Zonder pedofilie zou de wereld veel armer zijn."